How I met my Hubby Full Depth

That's when we first held hands, our thrid kiss, getting married in the temple, and my bouquet was the most beautiful bouget of flowers I ever had, and still have it, it's very wilted but still has a special place in my heart for that day. This blog post is all about how I met my hubby, but I also want to show my vlog #2 about how I am doing with my books. Still in the process slowly, I hope I will get more done.

I made another video that I didn't mention in the blog video, about how I met my hubby. I decided to do this story for I found the story funny, each time someone askes me how I met him or how we got together I always tell them that I "married" his younger brother first and I get confused looks each time. 

I was fun looking back in my past and drawing them, I thought it would be fun to do a erase to the pictures of the story I'm telling would be fun, unlike the spider vs me story I drew as I told the story, this I drew the pictures already and just put a layer on top of the other layers and erased it while recording. Much different than any other videos I've done but I think it's cool.

I never thought I would marry his brother, (never say never). My friends would laugh at the thought if I would actually marry his younger brother. I laughed about it too, for the moment we pretend to get married was so much fun, even though my best friend was angry and was turning purple I was laughing the whole time. At the kiss part I just hugged him didn't expect anything but he bends me over and stages kissed me. My face turned to beat red. 

My first kiss was sorta was with his younger brother, but it wasn't really a kiss since he was really kissing his thumb, but my first actual kiss was nothing like that, I was dumbfounded disappointed, it wasn't magical as I thought it would be for years. But it's ok now, I enjoy kissing my hubby now, it's the best!

 This picture I want to explain how our timeline went, the left top corning is the time when we first held hands, we were in an area of trees and grass and that's when we first held hands. We weren't boyfriend or girlfriend at that time we were still getting to know each other, but that same day we did get into a terrible car wreck. We are not sure how or who's fault it was, I claimed I run a red light but others say I didn't, either way I felt guilty. But after that car wreck he was texting me like crazy, (finally). Before he asked me out but weeks I heard nothing from him, nothing. I would try to text him or call him but heard nothing from him. We were out for a walk for that day only because I forced him to come to do errands to get to know him, for who asks you out and then hear nothing after that. That's not the way to go to men! Anyways, I didn't put the car wreck in there because I figure maybe another time, I might make a video about how I got my first boyfriend or something like that you know.

This is the house that I grew up, born and raised until I was 14, that's when things changed. My parents got an idea to move to an area that was growing with some population and figure out a way to do it so they don't have to pay a mortgage anymore. I hated it, I absolutely didn't like it, I missed the old house all the time, I missed the green, my huge back yard, the space, apparently, the desert home is bigger than my old home but it sure didn't feel like it to me cause I felt very cramped, we couldn't get a tall Christmas tree anymore, only tiny ones, and that all upset me at the time.

But as time went by, I actually starting to like it, I would like to live there again, I grown to love the area and it's changing, so much more houses and business are building there and I think it would be cool to live there with all that there. 

When I went to my new school I actually liked it, my old school I felt like all the teachers were mean and I would get terrible stomach achs because I was so nervous about going to school. but with the new school, they had a different program that helped me and the teachers were even nicer and tried to help me. And that's where I met my best friend who is successful in publishing her books, she got into drawing books like me when she met me. We were in the same choir class and met other people and one of them was the future hubby that I didn't know at the time, all I remember how he would talk to us and got to know about him and his younger brother. I literally thought they were twins for a while.

But people thought my younger sister and I were twins as well, I don't see it but others think so. 

When I was in junior year high school that's when my future hubby younger brother came to high school and we became good friends. My best friend always tried to get me to get a boyfriend, she was always getting boyfriends it was easy for her, but for me, I didn't really want one. Like I want one but didn't want to bother while I was at school, rather wait until later. So when she saw me and my future younger brother flirting she didn't like it for she thinks he is way too young for me. So we kept it going, just to get her mad. My other friends found it funny and think we should get married, so he got a cheap ring from a vending machine thing and when he proposed my best friend freaked and then all of sudden my friends got around and started the ceremony. My best friend was clenching her teeth in anger as this went on. 

In my senior year, I got the chance to be in the same class as my future hubby was, finical class, (and honestly they should talking to us about taxes, I didn't know it was a thing until later in life). But anyway, when we were in a group project I was working on the project while he and she was talking and I remember looking at him, he was talking about how his birth dad was in jail and such, and I even remember what he was wearing and everything, I said: "He will Probably Never marry me".

I remember saying that to myself, for sure I want to get married sometime in the future and thought he would not like me for who I was, I was a shy girl and emotional wreck. But it turns out he is open to that and was very helpful. What I love about him that he doesn't care how I look, he loves me who I am and wants to be with me. I think that's what made me fall in love with him, for I didn't think any guy would like me if I didn't look right. 

Before I got the chance to meet him again, I was working on my stories, babysitting and served a mission. When I came back I was ready to date guys and get a boyfriend when nothing happened for a few months I was getting discouraged, I prayed before institute that I would find someone to date, for I was trying, I was talking to boys, (I WAS TALKING TO BOYS, that never happens). I was trying, getting out of my comfort zone and such but nothing was happening, not until I found my future hubby that night.

Well, what's funny I thought that he was brother that I married in high school, so I had to go up to him and ask, he told me that he was the older brother and how his younger brother was on his mission, I asked if  I could write to him and he asked me for my number so he can text it to me. He didn't get it to me, instead, he asked me out. My prayer was answered but I didn't expect it. 

Oh, I have to mention, since middle school, he has never stopped growing. He has gotten so tall, I was shocked. 

My wedding day was the most perfect day for me, everything went perfect. I was the happiest person alive that day, if I could rewind a day for a day it would be that day. I am very happy to be married to him. Sure we did face challenges but who doesn't in a marriage? We are still together happily together with two kids. Hoping for more. 

One thing about this video I think I didn't do was focus on my hubby, it was mainly about other things, yes it shows how I got to know him and married him but that's really it. I think when I do another one I should have him be more contribute. But also the main message in this video is that Never say Never. For I said that and didn't turn out to be that, in fact, he is the man I married that I said he never would. Don't forget that.